“How can we say that about others, or try to win in our own lives, when we don’t know what winning even looks and feels like?”

Who said it, and where.

Who said “How can we say that about others, or try to win in our own lives, when we don’t know…”? Eric Chow said it in his article "Is That Person Really “Winning” Life?", Medium, January 5, 2020.