“I didn’t realize that maybe they needed to learn and struggle and fail for themselves, rather than rely on someone else all the time, that I shouldn’t do for them what they can do for themselves.”

Who said it, and where.

Who said “I didn’t realize that maybe they needed to learn and struggle and fail for themselves…”? Eric Chow said it in his article "Caring Is A Strength", Medium, December 4, 2021.